Optimize InitSocialRelay and print more debug msgs

related to https://github.com/thefederationinfo/the-federation.info/pull/162
9 jobs for v1.0.0-develop.3 in 21 minutes and 30 seconds (queued for 2 minutes and 28 seconds)
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  Install
passed #2062
install

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  Test
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linux:test:mysql

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passed #2063
linux:test:psql

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  Build
passed #2065
linux:amd64

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passed #2068
linux:arm:7

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passed #2067
windows:386

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passed #2066
windows:amd64

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  Deploy
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deploy artifacts to bintray

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  Review
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trigger other pipelines

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